Certain qualities, like a sense of humor, a healthy sex drive, and an adventurous spirit, are widely credited with helping to stave off boredom in what could otherwise become a stale or predictable relationship. But there is one positive quality that often goes overlooked, unmentioned, or undervalued: the love of surprises. Here are five reasons why you should date someone who loves to surprise you. It is not easy to surprise someone.
Even small surprises necessitate some degree of planning: furtive phone calls and e-mails to friends and family, special trips to the store for supplies, careful attention to schedules and timing and preferences, etc. Anyone who willingly subjects himself to that kind of stressful, exhausting planning process in your honor is pretty special not to mention organized and responsible — two attractive qualities in a mate.
Granted, a surprise might require your partner to keep secrets from you or even tell you a white lie, but every relationship needs a little mystery, right? Plus, the payoff is worth it. Sure, it's hard to plan a surprise, but the hardest part of a surprise is actually thinking of it.
Surprises big and small are, at their core, hopeful and romantic gestures. So we talked to 17 men to find out the most romantic thing a woman has ever done for them. Interestingly, most of these gestures involve food… Consider this all the proof you need that the whole "tough guy" image is simply a stereotype:. She bought me the DVD, not knowing I already owned it, but it was really the thought that mattered to me.
She made my favorite meal for dinner, we watched movies, and later that weekend she took me to a jazz brunch, which was pretty awesome. She worked at Coldstone at the time and used her hard-earned money to buy me a new one with some additional games. This was a big deal at the time as we were both in high school and it was something you'd never really expect.
A few months later for Valentine's Day she surprised me with two tickets row 15 to watch my favorite team play. It was the nicest thing anyone has ever done for me. It was a trip of a lifetime.
Your girlfriend will melt into a puddle of love as your hands massage her back, shoulders, and legs after a long day. Sometimes kissing is more passionate than having sex. It takes a real man to hold back sexual urges and settle for sweet kisses.
But your girl will love the attention. A few hickeys on her neck are no big deal. Kiss away. Wake her up in the morning on her day off and suggest a spontaneous trip to the beach or mountains.
Plus singing along to good songs never hurt anyone. Get out of the house and try something new and fun together. This can be a sport, cooking class or even yoga. Better yet if your girlfriend has suggested something she was interested in doing in the past attend that activity with her. These moments should be fun for both of you.
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